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MyCube Relatedness Test

Please answer the following questions by circling the appropriate number.

Question 1:
Do you remember what you have spent your time doing? (Consider: Yesterday/ Last week)

No don’t remember
Do not try to remember
Vaguely remember
Remember well
Yes Clearly documented

Question 2:
Are you fully present when doing something, or does your mind wander from the task, thinking of other things?

Yes always wanders
Often wanders
Sometimes wanders
Seldom Wanders
Never wanders

Question 3:
How often do you promise things and then don’t deliver on them?

Always promise and don’t deliver
Often
Sometimes
Seldom
Never - Always deliver

Question 4:
How easily do you let go of things? (When you get angry or upset, for example, are you able to let go of those emotions quickly?)

Never let go
Not so easily
Sometimes
Mostly
Easily let go

Question 5:
Do you become negative or abusive when things happen to you that are out of your control? (for example, someone crashes into the back of your car while you are stationary)

Always negative and or abusive
Often
Sometimes
Seldom
Never negative and or abusive

Question 6:
How often do you consciously make an effort to sit still and just reflect?

Never sit and reflect
Seldom
Sometimes
Often
Always sit still and reflect

Question 7:
Do you share the problems or challenges that you are facing with a trustworthy confidant?

Never share
Seldom
Sometimes
Often
Always share

Question 8:
How much of the day do you spend doing the things you enjoy?

None, I don’t do the things I enjoy
Very little
Half of the day
Most of the day
All day do the things I enjoy

Question 9:
How much time do you spend being in the moment? (Not thinking about the past and or the future?)

Never in the moment
Seldom
Sometimes
Often
Always in the moment

Question 10:
How often do you use your intuition (gut feel) when making decisions?

Never use intuition
Seldom
Sometimes
Often
Always use intuition

Thank you! You have now completed the Relatedness questionnaire.


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You can’t pass or fail this test, but rather you can measure your relatedness

Relatedness is our ability to relate to all things: the way we relate to others, ourselves, things and the way we relate inwardly or outwardly.
These relationships are collectively called relatedness.

This test is not an indicator of how intelligent you are, but rather how you relate when you are challenged to change.

 

Scores 10 to 25

The lower your score the greater your need to think differently in relation to time and how this speaks to the value you hold. 
For example, if you spend a lot of time in meetings - you value meetings. If you are angry all the time - you value anger.
As we come to terms with this way of thinking we grow in our relatedness. Being aware of our true value and accepting this is the platform for change for growing in relatedness.
If you find your scores in this band there is much opportunity to improve your relatedness.
You must develop confidence to observe yourself.  MyCube gives you a framework that allows you to look at all of you – both good and bad.  As you come to terms with this way of thinking, you are able to grow in your relatedness.

Scores 25 to 35

People who find their score in the middle of the scale are people who are generally aware of the concepts or theories regarding relatedness and the consciousness that supports this relatedness, but have not yet integrated this theory into practice. In other words, they know that they should not get angry for long periods but still find themselves being angry.  This is a very important stage as this is the beginning of a shift into a new level of relatedness that will allow you to take on a new level of awareness, enabling the practical application of that theory (remember as Einstein said you don’t solve a problem with the same level of awareness that created it in the first place).

Scores 35 and upwards

If you are in the top half of the scale your relatedness is very healthy and you are able to integrate (be whole in) your thoughts, feelings and actions.

Most people with high scores are aware of the tension both inwardly and outwardly and have the means to transcend this tension by functioning out of a less dualistic form of awareness. They have an acute and very real awareness of what they can and cannot control and are able to let go of the less conscious (more dualistic) part of themselves with ease, not getting stuck there for long periods of time.

The main idea behind this test is to get you to think about how you relate and the associated awareness that assists you in relating better.

It’s not really the score that counts, but rather that you are on a journey to being more real, more human and more honest about yourself and the world you live in. This way you get the most out of life, regardless of the circumstance you find yourself in.

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